Hi Anna,
We have been into the Butterfly Kisses sex shop in Mullingar as we needed to spice things up in the bedroom. I have been very ill and sex has been off the menu for the last few years, we have 'fumbled' my husband purchased a 'Rabbit Pearl Deluxe' from Butterfly Kisses, we have had a lot of fun and I have my interest back again BUT I found the vibe too big and the ears too pointy.
I have looked on your website www.butterflykisses.ie and in the Butterfly Kisses catalogue. The ones I think might help are 'Jessica Rabbit Slim', 'Eclipse Ultra 7 Beaver', 'Eclipse Ultra 7 Vibe', 'Femme Fatale Vibe'. They seem to have less pointy ears or seem to be a little smaller.
Help, we need advice as we don't want to keep buying ones that are not suitable. Indeed you might have other suggestions. We can visit the shop in Mullingar to view anything you might suggest.
Regards,
Amy
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Hi there Amy,
I’m glad to hear you have found your enthusiasm in the bedroom again. You seem to be doing exactly what I would suggest, browse the catalogue and site and you have a good idea of what you want and which toys would suit you.
I would also suggest that you visit the shop and take a good look at the toys on display. Have a feel of the textures used in the products, how flexible, hard, soft the rabbit ears are and check the settings - the more settings you have, the more versatile the toy can be so you can get it exactly to your liking.
Nicola (Store Owner) is very well versed on all the toys and is very easy to talk to so I suggest you have a chat with her too.
You say you find the Rabbit Pearl Deluxe too big and the ears too pointy. In this case the Eclipse Ultra 7 Vibe as you pointed out would be better suited in the ear department, but length and width would be just a small bit bigger, although this product pulsates, which adds an added sensation like a pulse, which is very popular. This is a best selling rabbit vibrator in Butterfly Kisses.
Have you considered something like the Rock Chick this is a very popular toy, not like your conventional vibrator, it is inserted vaginally and rests also on the clitoris and g-spot giving double stimulation. The toy is then rocked back and forth by yourself or your partner. This is something that I think might suit your request perfectly as it does not have pointy ears and it is slimmer than your regular vibrator. The bullet can be taken out and used separately in any way your imagination allows. The bullet is very powerful.
Other than that, there are slim line rabbit vibrators or separate clitoral stimulators that can be used alone or with a regular finger style vibrator.
As every woman is different it is hard to recommend one vibe that will suit everyone. You need to choose it yourself based on what you think of it when you visit the shop. I personally always buy waterproof toys that don’t have fiddly controls and have several settings or options.
Remember to always use lube and clean and store your toys as per manufacturer’s instructions. Always remove batteries before storing. Treat yourself to a new toy every now and then as like with all toys, a change is as good as a rest.
After a while you will have built up a good selection of goodies for various moods/occasions.
Again, I am delighted to hear you are trying to spice things up in the bedroom department; it’s always great to hear :-)
Happy shopping!
Love Anna xxx
Resident Sexologist at www.ButterflyKisses.ie