Sex Toys: Difficulty Maintaining An Erection

Hi Anna,

I'm a young man (19 years old) who has difficulty obtaining and maintaining a full erection for any real period of time even without ejaculation, basically due to nerves... is there any tablets or lotions available in Butterfly Kisses, and what, in your opinion, whould be the the most effective products to help me obtain a "longer and stronger" erection?!

I look forward to your response and hope you can help me in some way.

Thank you.

Alan.

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Hi Alan,

I’m sorry to hear you are having this difficulty and let me assure you it is far more common than you might think.

Firstly, before even looking at herbal products, I suggest you have a deeper look at the reasons behind your “nerves”:

Think back to the first time this problem happened and how the girl responded – was she negative in any way that would make you so self conscious?

Have you had successful intercourse in the past or are you a virgin?

Are you with the same girl or are you attempting sex with various girls you don’t know all that well?

Does this problem happen at all when you masturbate?

What are you nervous about?

The answers to these questions should give you a clearer picture of what’s going on here and what exactly is causing your anxiety.

For any young man who isn’t very sexually experienced I would suggest being with someone you are very comfortable and relaxed with and take things slowly and progressively. Don’t ever use alcohol as a bit of Dutch courage as it actually does the opposite in this situation. Get yourself a good sex manual so that you are better informed about the workings of both the male and female body. It would be good for you to be aware of other ways of arousal other than genital contact. Having a good sex book will make you better informed and more confident with your new found knowledge.

There are balms available that give a heat sensation and also several herbal supplements are known as stimulants – Ultimate V Herbal Viagra being one of them. This product takes under an hour to work and is very effective and safe with no side effects. The effects can be noticed the next morning too, it is that effective.

There is also a product known as Prolong Plus Erection Cream if you prefer not to take any tablets. This is a Chinese formula with ginseng for an added boost. This cream allows you to last longer with stronger ejaculation. Just place a small amount on the head / tip of penis, leave it on for about 10 minutes and wash off.

So, take the pressure off yourself, start from scratch, get sex savvy, look at improving your confidence and start to enjoy being a young man.

Hope this helps.

Love Anna xxx

Resident Sexologist at www.ButterflyKisses.ie

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